Monday, June 13, 2011

13/06 よみうり寸評 - 仏教では死後の百箇日を〈卒哭忌 そっこくき 〉と呼ぶ。哭は大声をあげて泣くことだ。子を亡くし、親兄弟、配偶者を亡くして人は泣く


6月13日付

仏教では死後の百箇日を〈卒哭忌そっこくき〉と呼ぶ。哭は大声をあげて泣くことだ。子を亡くし、親兄弟、配偶者を亡くして人は泣く◆が、百日たったら泣くのをやめようというのが卒哭。いつまでも泣き続けていると、天界で亡き人が持つ灯火ともしびがその涙で消えてしまうなどと言われている◆〈四十九日〉は死者が今生の死の後、来世の生を得るまでの日数だという。さて、東日本大震災から3か月を過ぎて、12日現在7937人がなお行方不明のままだ。四十九日、百箇日をどう受け止めればいいか。多くの人の心が揺れている◆被災地の自治体は震災3か月を区切りに行方不明の人を「死亡」と見なし、遺族に支払う災害弔慰金の支給対象を行方不明者の家族にも広げた◆が、「せめて遺体と対面するまでは……」と受け取りをためらう人。「本当は夫の死を認めたくない。でもこのままでは生活できない」と割り切れない思いを胸に申請した人◆それぞれにつらいことだろう。いつ割り切れるか。そこに「一定のメド」などはない。
(2011年6月13日13時46分  読売新聞)

13/06 Lady Gaga performs at gay rights concert in Rome


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People watch U.S. singer Lady Gaga performs during the gay pride concert in downtown Rome June 11, 2011. (Xinhua/Reuters Photo)
U.S. singer Lady Gaga takes off her dress by the late fashion designer Gianni Versace as she performs during the worldwide gay rights concert in downtown Rome June 11, 2011. Pop queen Lady Gaga concluded a huge European gay rights in Rome on Saturday night with a rousing call to governments to defend gay rights. (Xinhua/Reuters Photo)
U.S. singer Lady Gaga performs during the worldwide gay rights concert in downtown Rome June 11, 2011. Pop queen Lady Gaga concluded a huge European gay rights in Rome on Saturday night with a rousing call to governments to defend gay rights. (Xinhua/Reuters Photo)
U.S. singer Lady Gaga arrives as she takes part at the worldwide gay rights concert in downtown Rome June 11, 2011. Pop queen Lady Gaga concluded a huge European gay rights in Rome on Saturday night with a rousing call to governments to defend gay rights. (Xinhua/Reuters Photo)
U.S. singer Lady Gaga performs during the worldwide gay rights concert in downtown Rome June 11, 2011. Pop queen Lady Gaga concluded a huge European gay rights in Rome on Saturday night with a rousing call to governments to defend gay rights. (Xinhua/Reuters Photo)

     
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Sunday, June 12, 2011

12/06 編集手帳


6月12日付

「はだかは御法度ごはっと/外国人に笑わるるな」「立小便/以もっての外」。明治初期の新聞には、こうした政府のお達しが度々登場する。開国後、やってきた西洋人の侮蔑の目に、直ちに旧習を改める必要を痛感したのであろう◆日本人としての振る舞いを、政府は「作法要項」として学校で教えた。通知表は国語の上に「修身」があり、その上に「操行」つまり作法があったほどである。横山験也さんが『明治人の作法』(文春新書)に書いている◆作法要項は挨拶や敬礼、服装、食事、訪問迎接など多岐にわたる。これらの根底には、自らの分をわきまえ、相手の分(御分ごぶん)に敬意を払うという、古来変わらぬ日本人思想が流れていた◆大震災後、海外メディアからは「強奪も暴動も起きない」「我慢強く耐える姿に驚いた」と称賛された。多くの支援や声援も寄せられた。これらも御分の文化と無関係ではあるまい◆3か月がたち、原発避難者の留守宅などを狙った侵入盗が4割も増えているという。義援金募集をかたる詐欺や、M資金をエサにした融資話などがまたぞろ被災地を駆け回っていると聞く。これは情けない。
(2011年6月12日01時08分  読売新聞)

12/06 MUSINGS

The following is a translation of the Henshu Techo column from The Yomiuri Shimbun's June 12 issue.
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"Public nudity is forbidden. You should not subject yourself to the ridicule of foreigners." "Urinating in public is inexcusable." These government exhortations were often carried in newspapers of the early Meiji era (1868-1912).
The government was apparently trying to get the people to quickly change their ways to avoid the contempt of Westerners coming to Japan after the country opened up to the world.
The government also had schools teach children "essential Japanese manners."
In school report cards, the subject of "moral training" was listed above "Japanese [language]." Listed even higher was the "code of conduct," which covered public manners.
So wrote Kenya Yokoyama in his book "Meiji-jin no Saho" (Manners of the Japanese in the Meiji Era), published in a pocket-size edition by Bungeishunju Ltd.
The essential manners covered a wide range of behavior, including "greetings," "salutations," "attire," "table manners," and "making visits or receiving visitors." Running throughout these manners was the time-honored Japanese ethic of knowing one's place and respecting others.
Foreign media praised the behavior of the Japanese in the wake of the recent devastating earthquake and tsunami, saying such things as, "There was neither robbery nor rioting," or "I marveled at how patiently people endured hardship." Foreign countries also gave Japan much support and encouragement. These reactions may have had something to do with Japan's culture of respecting others.
Three months have passed since the March 11 disaster. The number of burglaries in Fukushima Prefecture, particularly of houses left vacant by evacuees near the crippled Fukushima nuclear plant, increased 40 percent during the March-May period from the same period last year.
And some have fraudulently sought donations for victims of the disaster. Others have tried to swindle disaster victims by claiming they could extend loans from the unconfirmed M-Fund the GHQ allegedly obtained from the former Japanese military forces after the war and charging up-front commissions for arranging the loans.
These are shameful acts indeed.
(Jun. 16, 2011)

Gái trẻ điêu đứng vì đàn ông có vợ


12/6/2011

Ảnh minh họa: sheknows.com.
Ảnh minh họa: Sheknows.com.

Sau vài lần chạm mặt, dù biết Thành đã có vợ con, Thu vẫn yêu tha thiết. Vẻ chững chạc, đàn ông và thái độ lúc vồn vã, khi hững hờ của chàng giám đốc đa tài khiến cô càng "say".
> Chiêu lừa tình của đàn ông có vợ

Là thư ký một công ty lớn tại Đống Đa, Hà Nội, vẻ ngoài xinh đẹp, tự tin, Thu được nhiều chàng trai trẻ săn đón. Thế nhưng, cô lại gục trước người hơn mình một giáp và đã yên bề gia thất.
"Anh ấy điềm đạm, chiều chuộng em hết mình nhưng cũng rất quyết đoán, chứ không quỵ lụy như mấy anh chàng từng 'cưa' em. Ở bên anh ấy em luôn cảm thấy thú vị, ấm áp", Thu lý giải.
Mặc dù vậy, cũng không ít lần cô gái 26 tuổi này phải buồn tủi và nổi ghen với vợ và hai cậu con của Thành. "Anh ấy bảo không yêu vợ nữa nhưng không thể bỏ các con. Những ngày lễ, Tết, em ngồi gặm nhấm nỗi cô đơn nghĩ tới cảnh người đàn ông mình yêu đang vui vẻ bên vợ con mà tim đau nhói", Thu kể.

12/06 余録:先月、何年ぶりかで台北の故宮博物院を訪れ…

 先月、何年ぶりかで台北の故宮博物院を訪れ、様変わりに驚いた。あまりに中国人の入場者が多かったからだ。あちこちで旗を持ったガイドがツアー客に中国語で説明している。故宮には中国の歴代王朝の宝物が多数展示されているので、中国の人たちが一目見たいと思うのは当然だろう▲ただ、いただけないのは、大声でおしゃべりする人が多いことだ。中国人客が増えるにつれ、参観マナーが問題となってきた。対策として、職員が「請軽声細語(お話は小さな声で)」と書いた案内板を掲げて館内を回り、注意を呼び掛けている▲中国の観光客が台湾を訪問できるようになったのは、3年前からだ。対中交流に力を入れる国民党の馬英九政権が、団体旅行に限って認めた。昨年の中国人観光客は163万人に上り、初めて日本人を抜いて1位となる▲馬政権は間もなく、個人旅行も解禁する方針だ。中台間の直行便も、週370便から550便以上に増便する。これで中国人客はますます増えるだろう▲日本も一昨年、中国人の富裕層を対象に個人観光客を受け入れた。昨夏には中間層にも広げ、昨年1年間に日本を訪れた中国人客数は4割も伸びている。今年はさらに増加が見込まれていたが、東日本大震災でキャンセルが相次ぎ、4月の中国人客は前年に比べ半減した。訪日外国人客全体では6割の大幅減となる▲震災から3カ月、ようやく回復の兆しも見えてきたようだ。関係機関が協力し、世界の観光客を呼び戻したい。海外の人たちに日本を直接見てもらうことは、震災からの復興ぶりを国際社会にアピールするいい機会にもなるはずだ。
毎日新聞 2011年6月12日 東京朝刊

Saturday, June 11, 2011

11/06 よみうり寸評


6月11日付

突然訪ねてきた業者に屋根の補修を勧められ、約30万円を支払った。その工事は、薄いビニールを屋根にかけ、テープで貼り付けただけのずさんなものだった◆国民生活センターは、こうした事例をホームページで紹介し、東日本大震災で損壊した家の屋根修理の勧誘に注意を呼びかけている◆すぐに契約せず、工事内容や費用をよく確認する。複数の業者から見積もりを取るなど、くれぐれも慎重に検討する。何より大切なのは、怪しいと思ったら、きっぱり断ることだ◆法外な高金利で現金を貸し付ける「ヤミ金」も被災地で暗躍し始めたようだ。収入を断たれ、当座をしのぐ生活資金が必要な人たちをターゲットにしているのだろう◆「倍にして返せ」「生きている限り取り立てる」。借りた人には繰り返し電話がかかってくる。こんな悪徳業者に付け入る隙を与えないためにも、国などによる手厚い被災者支援が欠かせない◆大震災から3か月。まずは支給が遅れている義援金を一刻も早く被災者の手元に届けてほしい。
(2011年6月11日13時50分  読売新聞)

11/06 編集手帳 - 深い憂愁の作風で知られた明治生まれの詩人、高橋元吉はうたっている ... 永田町がたたえる濁り水の浅いことよ


6月11日付 

深い憂愁の作風で知られた明治生まれの詩人、高橋元吉はうたっている。〈みづのたたへのふかければ/おもてにさわぐなみもなし/ひともなげきのふかければ/いよよおもてぞしづかなる〉◆深い水をたたえた湖面には波が立ち騒ぐこともない。おなじように、あまりに深い悲嘆の底に沈んだ人の表情も見た目にはいたって静かなものである、と。東日本大震災を経験した今にして、詩のこころに思いあたる◆大津波が押し寄せ、家族と離ればなれになった瞬間を静かな面持ちで語る被災者に、テレビ画面を通して幾度となく出会った◆震災から、きょうで3か月になる。本紙東京版で『亡くなられた方々』の欄を毎日ご覧になっている方は新たに死亡が確認された人たちの名前を見ながら、いまだに“あの震災”とはならず、真っただ中の“この震災”であることを日々実感しておられよう。いまもなお、8000を超す数の行方不明者がいる◆それにつけても――である。引き降ろす側に策と知恵なく、居座る人に誇りと大局観なく、政局の波立ちは長引くばかりである。永田町がたたえる濁り水の浅いことよ。
(2011年6月11日01時21分  読売新聞)

Celeste Siam's Favorite: Dance Remix



The Coolest tracks in my DJ Bag
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Hello Lifestyle Asia readers,

I’m Celeste Siam and from now on I would like to bring you some of the coolest tracks which you can dance at my sets, enjoy at your favorite terrace on in a club near you or simply listening when you feel like it. 

I must say that I wouldn't be able to start writing this music column without the help of all my international Dj friends and producers who month by month keep educating and surprising me with very interesting pieces of musical Art. 

For your pleasure, these are my first Top 5 contribution and "must have" on my Dj bag:



Studio Apartment feat. Rae - Your Words (David Penn Remix)


I love how people react when I play it. If I must find another name about how Spanish top producer David Penn remixed Defected's tune, I would just say "chapeau". Emotion's how Studio Apartment featured a multi talent UK Dj and Singer Rae, both already established in the industry with a no turning point. Elegant style with an Iberian touch makes it perfect for your early sets or wake up calls. Bring back again all your sexiness when listening to it.


 
Bob Sinclar - Fuck The Disco (2011)


Personally this is one of those tracks that would stay on my bag for quite long time. Another re-edition which perfectly reminds us that Disco and Funk is back by popular demand. People might not like it as they consider the "French touch" simply not enough underground but personally I feel that is time to get back where we used to shake the butt with not sugar added. The album made on cooperation with Dimitri from Paris, Knights of The Playboy Mansion has its own gems and"Fuck The Disco" is also one of them.

Christophe Le Friant aka Bob Sinclar has nothing to prove but his versatile production skills for almost two decades of success which allow him to delight us with several hits that in one way or the other form part of our collective memories. 

Gianni Kosta feat. Paolo Ravley - Crazy (Radio Edit)


Great house track, represents a remarkable sharpening of focus at a time where the so called "mash ups" seams to pollute some dance floors. Completely in concordance within the most actual trends which bring us one of the best in action in ages. Corrosive commercial dance pop of "Gianni Costa" to the lo-fi electro touch of "Paolo Ravley" brings you a cool mix, Isn´t it? The track came out on the right place at the right time.


 
Adele - Rolling in the deep (Leo Blanco & Hugo Sanchez private remix)


The soul singer continues her rising musical trajectory with her last album, blending vintage sounds and smooth soul-pop. Adele has made us back to reaffirm how much we can love music.

Leo Blanco and Hugo Sanchez invite you to re-discover what technology and "housy" beats could create. This private remix made by one of the well known duos with more projection on the Spanish and international music scene, created a synergy which simply armed a music bomb! Powerful vocal and latino house with piano accords as it best, anytime i dropped, the dance floor turns on fire. Definitely, it‘s one of my secret weapons.

J'aime Happy Wednesday



Enjoy classic French dishes and wines at the Happy Valley Racecourse
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In the spirit of Le French May Arts Festival, the Happy Valley Racecourse is hosting J'aime Happy Wednesday nights on 18 and 25 May 2011 with exciting on-track racing action, French food and wine and chances to win tickets to Le French May Arts Festival.

Indulge in classic French dishes between cheering on the horses, including a French Cheese Platter with Crackers, Duck Rillettes on French bread, Escargots de Bourgogne and Classic Coq Au Vin paired with exquisite French wines.


Unforgettable memories will be made as you pose for pictures with 'French Lady Ambassadors' or the amazing Macaron Tower in the Beer Garden, and don't forget to write down your impressions of the evening to enter to win tickets for the "IAM", "IETO" and "Blue Lady" shows at Le French May.



Speaking of winners, be sure to bring your winning tickets to the Winner's Circle to have a free instant photo taken, plus a celebratory glass of wine for the first 50 lucky winners.

Springalicious Cocktail Night Party Review



Springalicious Cocktail Night Party Review
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With everyone around town raving about the Springalicious Hong Kong Restaurant Week, how could Rebecca and I miss out on their Cocktail Night last Saturday, 30 April 2011? We found ourselves being pampered with having some of the city's best mixologists stirring up an amazing brew for us that evening at Crowne Plaza.
 
 
The invitation specified Cocktail Attire, so Rebecca and I were both excited to get an opportunity to put on a fancy new dress. The crowds there were all dressed to the nines, making it a splendid place to see and be seen.
 

 
The party was set at Club @28. With the breathtaking backdrop of the Racecourse and the flowing water all around the lounge area, the event was as exquisite as it can get.
 

We were obviously there for the unique concoctions, so we didn't waste any time in heading to all the cocktail stations. We loved Drop's  Watermelon Martini, and we definitely agree to their slogan that diamonds are no longer a girl's best friend.
 
While drinking up, we had a quick chat with a couple of fellow partygoers, and we were recommended to try Find's Earl Grey Martini. Antonio was crowded by fashionistas all wanting a sip, which turned out to be an interesting experience, as the cocktail was made up of jelly bubbles, foam, and of course, alcohol.
 
We then went downstairs for Dada's Equinox and Republik's Clear Bloody Mary. We loved the taste of rosemary in Equinox, where Sam shared his tip on putting the rosemary inside the vodka several days for the essence to sink in. The Clear Bloody Mary, on the other hand, tasted like Thai food, being spicy and sour. It was definitely one-of-a-kind.
 
 
We then retreated to the VIP lounge for some of Club @28's mouthwatering canapés and let the cocktails sink in. It was such an amazing night I can't wait to make my reservations at the Springalicious' participating restaurants.


Guest Contributor Gillian Chu is a Hong Kong based Canadian who loves going to the latest parties, fashion, and cultural events in town. See what else she's been up to lately on her blog, here!

Bling on the Diva



Interview with Candace Cheung, Director of Divalicious
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Hong Kong is obsessed with bra straps. You can tell just by browsing through any local gossip magazine, which jumps at any opportunity to call out the slightest hint of any celebrity’s bra straps. Candace Cheung noticed this taboo in our culture too, and in 2009, she created Divalicious – a company specialising in creating 'bling bling' bra straps for all occasions. I was excited to get an opportunity to sit down with her and find out more about her products and inspiration.

Candace Cheung

What is Divalicious?
Divalicious is a series of bling bling designer bra straps that can be worn in a feminine or rock manner. Each strap is made of hypoallergenic nickel free metal and genuine Swarovski crystals, so you can be sure that they help you outshine your friends comfortably. All the straps can be altered to suit your style, so you can play with the straps and make it a halter or cross-over.

How would you describe a Divalicious girl?
A Divalicious girl is trendy, sexy, and fun-loving. She is somebody who is confident in herself and isn’t afraid to stand out from the crowd. She wears her Divalicious bra straps casually as well as formally, and it glams up her look effortlessly.



What gave you the idea to startup Divalicious?
It all started with belly dancing. I blinged up a bra strap for one of my belly dancing performance, which I thought would be a waste if I just left it in the cupboard after one use. That is why I wore it out one evening to spice up a boring ol’ black tube dress, and everyone just flocked over and kept asking me where I got it. I received so many compliments that I decided to start up a venture on it. I love seeing girls wearing my designs and it fills me with pride to hear from customers say how dazzling and fabulous they feel having a Divalicious strap on.



Tell me about your 2011 Spring/Summer collection.
Our 2011 Spring/Summer Collection, Summer Glitters, has included a touch of romance by adding orchid and leaf designs, complimented by colourful Swarovski crystals. It pairs nicely with a plain asymmetrical dress for a cocktail event, or a designer T-shirt and capris for a trip to the mall.



Exclusive discount for LifestyleAsia readers: Get a 10% discount off any purchase from Divalicious. So what are you waiting for? Check out their summer collection here!


Guest Contributor Gillian Chu is a Hong Kong based Canadian who loves going to the latest parties, fashion, and cultural events in town. See what else she's been up to lately on her blog, here!

Top 5 Jazz Bars in Hong Kong



The best places to get your jazz on
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Jazz is synonymous to feeling laid back, transporting us back to Chicago during the 1920s. It seems like the jazz bars in town are a bit of a sacred hideaway, and after a bit of digging, here are my top five picks of the best jazz bars in town.

1) Fringe Club
I recommend the Saturday night Jazz at the Fringe Club on the last Saturday of every month. Their jazz band is mainly made up of Japanese musicians, so you will see lots of their Japanese fans getting there real early for a quick chat. It is a very intimate performance area, and seats are on first come first serve basis, so get there earlier with a couple of friends to enjoy a chill drink and a spectacular performance.


2) Peel Fresco Music Lounge
The Peel Fresco Music Lounge's jazz nights on Thursdays and Saturdays is also a great choice. The lounge is relaxing and snug, and I love how they keep their music fresh by inviting different jazz musicians all the time. If you are heading their straight from the office, you can also grab a bite off their nibbles menu, freshly delivered from the restaurant right across the road.


3) Le Boudoir
Le Boudoir has a terrific live jazz band. I really like their luxurious decor, which feels like going back to an 18th Century French drawing room. Their signature cocktails are also to die for.


4) Salon de Ning
Salon de Ning in the Peninsula has a live jazz band daily after 9pm. They have hosted amazing jazz festivals which the Hong Kong jazz community is still raving about. They are a part of the Peninsula, so you can expect the best service in the world. With their lush curtains and velvet sofas, it gives a dark and sumptuous experience.


5) Champagne Bar
There is also the Champagne Bar in the Grand Hyatt, which has a jazz vocalist performing classic favourites every evening. As the name might have probably given it away, this bar is all about champagne. They probably have the most extensive champagne selection in Hong Kong. You will love this cozy bar, which is the perfect place for a pre-theatre drink, standing right across the road from the Hong Kong Academy of Performing Arts and the Hong Kong Arts Centre.



Guest Contributor Gillian Chu is a Hong Kong based Canadian who loves going to the latest parties, fashion, and cultural events in town. See what else she's been up to lately on her blog, here!